Tuesday, August 13, 2024

Camping - morning observations

A colleague recently pointed out, while asking B if he had visited Piața Centrală in Chișinău, that markets like these offer a glimpse into the local culture—how people interact, behave, and speak, revealing their backgrounds and way of life.

This idea applies to campsites too. With little (to none) privacy, an early morning coffee outside your tent becomes a window into the lives of others. Each campsite is like a small household, reflecting how people manage their space and relationships. Most people here are couples or families.

I enjoy (maybe too much) observing and imagining their lives. Some operate like a well oiled machine: the husband makes breakfast, the wife tidies up, then brews coffee. They sit together on a mat, enjoying a quiet breakfast, exchanging small talk; they also pry on others (thank God, I'm not the only one!). They're in their mid-50s. Another family is packing up. The dad struggles with folding a beach tent but remains patient, while the mom feeds the kids and organizes their things. Everything moves slowly, calmly. There's no stress, no friction. The dad keeps trying, taking his wife's advice without frustration (I suppose one learns in time which fights are worth picking in life). Nearby, kids about seven years old make tea while their parents sleep. It’s such a lovely scene.

These moments mirror their everyday lives, their natural rhythm. There's apparent alignment.

I keep watching, typing, and reflecting. 

Monday, August 12, 2024

Camping story

Andreea &Doru taught me how to pitch a tent that chilly autumn evening. They then made a dark joke about needing a hammer to knock the ice off me because my sleeping bag was totally wrong for the weather. That was 11 years ago, and ever since, I’ve only camped in sunny spots—preferably by the beach.

I still remember their little Primus stove and how our meals were mostly canned goulash, some slănină*, onions, bread, and maybe paté. We didn't need more. And I think we were happy.

It didn’t cross my mind to mention this to B earlier when he was pondering how people camped in the "olden days," while gazing at our current setup: a full-on camping kitchen with a fridge and a proper gas stove. When we camp, the food is as fancy as it gets. If you’ve ever joined our (mostly his*) dinners, you can imagine we don’t mess around, even in the wild. MasterChef on tour...He won't compromise at all 😅

Of course, it helps that the campsite facilities are top-notch (or close to that). Four years in, I can proudly say we’re as organized as any German campers! 😂

Beyond the pines, the sea stretches out. You can hear the waves splashing and a murmur of different languages fills the air.

No time for "summertime sadness".